Relationships

Relationship stuff | Relationship boosters | Long distance and on-line relationships | Lesbian, gay, bi, trans, or questioning | Culture, race, religion, and family | Nonconsensual relationships | Talking with parents | Friendship | Roommate rumblings | Friends or lovers | Miscellaneous

	Relationship stuff
		Flirting
		Hey baby, got any good pick-up lines? How do I let someone know s/he's special? Flirting
		Finding a partner
		Will I ever find a gay partner? Dumped cuz I'm a virgin Hey baby, got any good pick-up lines? Younger man hot for senior citizens Asking someone to the prom, or something else Should I cash in on hot banker? Italian ice breakers Beautiful on the outside, but no boyfriend Where to meet new people over the summer If he likes me, why won't he call? Woman wants to initiate date Does she like me? Finding a partner Compatibility vs. fun Brother gets all the girls Hot girls on campus? Shy grad student Need help to start dating Lonely foreign grad student Bachelor #1 or #2 Grads meeting grads? Relationship, not just sex at CU? First year — No boyfriend? Chance meeting — Future wife? One night stand or true love? Looking for Mr./Ms. Right Graduate students meet graduate students?
		Relating and communicating
		Love shack! Time to move in together? Nice names for naughty bits Asking for space: Was it a mistake? I don't care if I cum, but he does Smarter than my boyfriend... Fighting over money Long-distance and lacking communication My boyfriend went to a strip club... Dumped cuz I'm a virgin My boyfriend likes to wear women's underwear Boyfriend’s bladder a bummer in the bedroom We love each other, but we fight all the time... Who brings the contraception: Men or women? Told him my true feelings and now it's truly awkward I go down on her; why won't she do the same for me? Should I stop touching her breasts? I'm intimidated by my incredibly intelligent partner My partner feels more strongly about me than I do about him Beau improvements - Appropriate? History lesson — How do I ask about my partner's past? The girlfriend I love cheated on me and regrets it -- What should I do? ''Faking it'' for years wants to come clean I'm ready to commit for life to my girlfriend, but she's the only person with whom I've had sex Who's Dale, and why are you asking for him in your sleep? My girlfriend doesn't want me to wear a condom... but I do Tired of oral sex - Should we move onto intercourse? Talk more dirty to me! She dreams about ex — Should I lose sleep over it? Can our relationship survive summer break if we haven't had sex yet? Where do guys like to be touched? Intimate ways to ask partner to make love Loving confusion — is it okay to love same sex friends... and say so? What should I do after sex? Boyfriend sits down when he urinates Girlfriend gets scared every time I say, ''I love you'' ''True love''... Could it be true? Boyfriend watches TV when we have sex Wife is movie star struck Afraid that boyfriend will drink, cheat, and forget Prom dilemma Ain't got the giggles from crazy sex jiggles Boyfriend is always late Healthy vs. unhealthy relationships Should I tell my partner I was raped when I was a virgin? Stay with boyfriend or move on to new relationship? I can't wait till wedding night for sex Confused in love Lack of, and lackluster, lovemaking Balancing Santa's Sack (No, it ain't about St.Nick's undescended testicle) Away at college -- no letters from boyfriend Why doesn't he appreciate me? Selfish or uneducated lover? Why does my husband like porno pictures? Did she "fool around"? My husband goes to strip joints Anxious? In love? In love, but not in lust Girlfriend won't swallow Would my boyfriend be able to tell if I had an abortion? "Reading" my date Husband crossdresses Deciding to devirginize Husband not interested in sex, only masturbation Monogamous couple: Stop using condoms? Does my boyfriend fantasize during sex? First sexual relationship Can't make a commitment Husband says can't see friends Afraid to have sex? Girlfriend moving in and allergic to cats Intimate only visits at night Ready for intercourse — BF NOT Partner no longer kisses me during sex Boyfriend "using" girlie magazines Too much sex, too little relating Marriage at a lull? Boyfriend has child? Not getting IT enough Boyfriend said ''I love you'' to another woman Seven year monogamy, then long separation Girlfriend or teaching assistant? Boyfriend says not enough sex happening! Chippendale — 2.5 months later Girlfriend wants more? Demanding boyfriend from home? One year relationship Dinner = sex?
		Moving on
		Asking for space: Was it a mistake? How soon can I date after a break-up? In love, cut off, what now? Girlfriend, bossy, dump? Breaking up can be hard to do Ex-girlfriend dumps me for my best friend Should I stay or should I go? Love without harmony To be or not to be... single? Wait to date again? Why did she break up with me? Don't love him anymore? Relationship ended and left with warts BF problems Girlfriend says he chooses friends first Long distance relationship--marriage? Ex now jealous? Miss ex-girlfriend, or is it something else? Pregnant, but broke up? Girl wants to dance and party — BF doesn't Ex-boyfriend?
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	Relationship boosters
	Boyfriend says no to role-playing Cheap, romantic gift ideas Happy Anniversary ideas Lack of, and lackluster, lovemaking Creative ideas for a long-distance Valentine's Day Relationship rev-up Sexy role-plays Relationships wane after initial passion Spice up sex life? Marriage at a lull?
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	Long distance and on-line relationships
	Long-distance and lacking communication Relationship becomes a long distance one Away at college -- no letters from boyfriend Looking for love online The up side of a long distance relationship Long distance relationships Missing far away romance Long distance relationship--marriage? Seven year monogamy, then long separation Another long distance relationship Long distance relationship — solo pastimes while we're apart?
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	Lesbian, gay, bi, trans, or questioning
		Questioning sexuality
		Bad experiences with men = Lesbian? Bi, gay, pan-sexual: What do I call myself? Lesbian questioning if she's bisexual How do I know if my girlfriend is a lesbian? Feeling guilty about "gay thoughts" Am I gay?... The next generation How do I know if I'm gay? Bisexual to straight = Black hole? Homosexual? Interested in lesbian sex Bisexual?
		Coming out
		My parents don't believe I'm bi! I'm bi and interested in my friend Come out to girlfriend about boy-crush? How can I tell my religious parents that I'm a lesbian without them disowning me? Man trapped in woman's body: Coming out of the transgender closet Stereotypical lesbian? Coming out to Mom
		Homophobia
		Worried about gay-bashing Excellent site, but could you take out the gay stuff? 'Dear Matt': Reflections on the death of Matthew Shepard I thought she was a woman: My real-life crying game Help — My roommate's a lesbian! Rumor control — Is s/he gay?
		Life issues and resources
		Will I ever find a gay partner? They don't believe that I'm gay! Gay and president? Worried about gay-bashing The fake straight dude Man trapped in woman's body: Coming out of the transgender closet Excellent site, but could you take out the gay stuff? Lonely lesbian wants to be less lonely Bisexual to straight = Black hole? Bisexuals on campus Rumor control — Is s/he gay?
		Relating
		Does my bisexual friend "like" me? In love with my best friend, but he's gay They don't believe that I'm gay! What does it mean to be intersexed, and how common is it? The fake straight dude How do I know if my girlfriend is a lesbian? Stereotypical lesbian? Help — My roommate's a lesbian! Male in love with male professor From sharing closet space to coming out of the closet Rumor control — Is s/he gay?
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	Culture, race, religion, and family
	Family meets faith Change of faith: What if my religious parents find out? Bored with white friends How can I tell my religious parents that I'm a lesbian without them disowning me? Female showermates laugh at me Teased for being taller than boyfriend Why do nice guys always finish last? Wife is movie star struck Troubled by attraction to tall women Catholic and atheist consider marriage Am I a dork for not being a party animal? Parents don't approve of interracial relationship Balancing Santa's Sack (No, it ain't about St.Nick's undescended testicle) ''A'' is for affair with professor? Sex talk -- Do similar discussions go on in women's lounges and men's locker rooms? Should a younger man have sex with an older woman? Dating first cousin Too short to date? Interfaith couple Brother-in-law to be has cold feet
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	Nonconsensual relationships
	Forgiving myself after being sexually abused Bad experiences with men = Lesbian? Sex offender... Forever? Was I raped? Rape aggression defense (R.A.D.) or other self-defense classes - Are they available at Columbia? I'm sure I was drunk, but I'm not sure if I had sex Worried about gay-bashing What about emotional abuse? My boyfriend hits me: Should I go back to him? Help me stop stalking my ex and his new partner Healthy vs. unhealthy relationships Should I tell my partner I was raped when I was a virgin? Older guy went too far Abusive girlfriend Fears Boyfriend May Become Abusive Rape survivor needs help with intimate relationships Please hold while I masturbate Former abusive relationship Statutory rape? Relationship — Abusive? Cruising on the commute Teacher, student, and sexual harassment Exhibitionism/Exposing self Men pressured to have sex Sex with four friends -- Mutual? Girlfriend broke it off - Am I stalking? Male rape possible? Obsessing about fellow student? Sister in battered relationship Dinner = sex?
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	Talking with parents
	Love shack! Time to move in together? Change of faith: What if my religious parents find out? My dad's cheating on my mom... How can I tell my religious parents that I'm a lesbian without them disowning me? I'm afraid to tell my mom, 'I'm pregnant' Parents find porn in the boys' room Parents don't approve of interracial relationship Need to see a doctor, but I don't want my parents to know I've had sex My mom found my contraceptives! Can't please dad Telling mom about my boyfriend and our birth control How do I tell my parents I'm pregnant? Coming out to Mom Curfews on break
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	Friendship
	My friends keep dumping their problems on me! Off to college and losing touch with friends Told him my true feelings and now it's truly awkward Commuter student blues In love with my best friend, but he's gay My friend relentlessly competes with me, and I want it to stop, now Loving confusion — is it okay to love same sex friends... and say so? Model friend has huge ego Having older friends — Weird? Teased for being taller than boyfriend What can I buy my good male friend? Got boyfriend and great family -- But no friends Prom dilemma Practice sex with best friend "Old" undergraduate Shy grad student Pressured to take a date to the prom Graduate students meet graduate students?
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	Roommate rumblings
	Concerned over co-ed bathrooms I don't want to sexile my new roommate No one cares about drunken, messy hallmates, or do they? Family feuds over furnace Help — My roommate's a lesbian! Roommate masturbates every night Floormate leads reckless life Roommate with B.O.? From sharing closet space to coming out of the closet
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	Friends or lovers
	Friends with benefits? Friends... Add benefits? Told him my true feelings and now it's truly awkward Should I tell my friend that I'm attracted to him? Wants to be more than friends, but how?
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	Miscellaneous
	Nosy neighbors are ruining our romance! Sick and tired of rejection Lonely boy from Hong Kong Relationship with a dying person? Female showermates laugh at me ''True love''... Could it be true? How to tell someone, 'You smell' Am I a dork for not being a party animal? Longing for love poems Herpes from a personal ad? The Boss: Object of my affection Wants to stop bailing on relationships A variety of partners? Right time for sex Average number of sex partners Attracted to another Old love stepped back in Sex six times in seven years? Calling out ex's name Fear of rejection? Chippendale guy? First date in Morningside Heights? Sex, drugs, and relationships? Three nostrils
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