Alice,

I love your site! I read you response to "Can masturbation or using a sex toy desensitize the clitoris?" and how right you are. It was only after I started using a vibrator, at age 20, that I began having regular orgasms. It has really helped me explore and enhance my sexuality. Contrary to desensitizing me, my urge and excitement for sex has only increased and my orgasms grow stronger and more intense with practice. Far from working against us, my orgasms with my boyfriend are more intense and sometimes even multiple, which makes us both happy. I believe vibrators help make obtaining orgasms easy and enjoyable on a regular basis. The body has responds to this in a positive way, making it more sexual, overall. A vibrator should be a part of every woman's owner's manual from the start!

Sarah, MO