To John,

I don't know you, but I think I know how you might be feeling. I understand what it is like to have a disability, and I also know sometimes it hurts. I have down's syndrome, and that isn't stoping me any. I know that you love that girl, but you have to make her understand that you are disabled and will do what you can to please her, and that you can't change who you are. Anyway, if she already knows this and accepts this, than at least that's a good thing, and you do what you can. You have every right to be bummed, but try not to let that get in the way of things.

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Dear John,

I'm very similar to you, my friend. I like knowing I can pleasure a woman. I have cerebral palsy and scoliosis of the spine, and I find many women are scared of getting intimate with me.

Everyone says it will happen one day, but after hearing that over and over again, I tend to get down. Remember, intercourse is not always the key to a great sex life. Be with her, caress her, and be honest with her.

I wish you all the best.

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Hey,

My boyfriend is a quad and sometimes I feel like your girlfriend. But you know what, I look at my baby I know he's enjoying it and it's gonna take time for things to work, but the practice is all the fun!!!! Explain to her that the more you do it the more you enjoy it!!!