You said to the reader in GETTING VERBAL ABOUT MUSTY ORAL SEX that in some relationships, there are "deal breakers," and that he/she may want to move on. It would seem a shame to sacrifice an otherwise great relationship for this reason, if the reader loves this woman and is attracted to her personality. I consider myself to be sexually liberated, and am in a relationship of three years. I do not believe that to have a satisfying sexual relationship you have to include every available sexual pleasure. You wouldn't go to a restaurant and order everything on the menu, because not everything appeals to everybody, and you'd never have time for everything! Quality, not quantity, is important. I've never enjoyed the taste of semen, so I don't think I'm ever gonna be a "spit OR swallow" girl!, but it doesn't mean that I don't enjoy amazing sex. If it's her natural smell, I think any way she hears it will hurt her feelings because most people are sensitive about that sort of thing, especially in a new relationship. I would have a check up, both of you, and if it's just her natural body odor, just vary your repertoire a little and make the most of what you can mutually enjoy.