There was a question in regards to a girl feeling like she has to urinate while having sex. PLEASE do not tell her or anyone else that the only reason is that her bladder is full!!!! That may be one of the reasons but... there is a thing called female ejaculation. It is another possible reason why a girl may feel like she has to pee during sex.

As a young girl of 23, I always had that sensation and stopped myself from having sex. Then one day, my boyfriend of two years told me that he loved me and he didn't care if I urinated all over the place, so I did... I called and asked my mother if I had urinated or had an orgasm (my mother is very cool, obviously). She told me to go and smell to see what it was... and it wasn't urine... it didn't smell like urine and it wasn't yellow. I had a full on ORGASM!!!

Now, as an adult, I can have the most wonderful female ejaculation orgasms... put it this way... I have made puddles on my floor that when cleaned up with a towel, I could wring it out and fill a glass!

Let me tell you... IT IS THE MOST WONDERFUL FEELING IN THE WORLD!! Now I know what men must feel when they achieve orgasm!

Signed... Puddles

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Alice,

Thank God for your site! I was so embarrassed to think that I was urinating while having sex. It didn't feel like I was, but I was releasing so much fluid my boyfriend and I were convinced this is what was happening. I am so relieved to know that not only am I not alone, but that my boyfriend can give me the most amazing orgasms of my life!!!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you, a THOUSAND times thank you!

Sherri

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Alice,

I am a 25 y/o female who has just experienced female ejaculation. I went to my dr. about it because I though something was wrong with me. I wasn't sure what was going on. I accused my partner of urinating on me and he told me that it wasn't him. The second time it happened to me, he stopped penetrating and the fluid came shooting out. I was sitting here on the Internet trying to research this and I found that many studies don't believe it to be true. Well, I am living proof that this is true and it happens.

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Thank you, Alice, for providing real information about female ejaculation, and for allowing responses.

The one reader response signed "puddles" made me feel much less like a freak. For the past several months I have been having intense orgasms coupled with ejaculation when my girlfriend penetrates me with her hand or a dildo. I had never experienced this before in my near decade of sexual activity. Sometimes its just a few teaspoonfulls, but lately its been more. Much more. Last night we had to wash the sheets and sleep in the guest bedroom because I left such a huge puddle! Probably more than a cup of liquid. I was very ashamed and really worried that something was wrong with me. I was dreading going to the GYN and having to ask about it. Now I just tell my girlfriend that she has proof that she's doing a great job!

Thanks, Bashfully Wet