Dear Wondering,

Yes, it's normal to have labia that are of different sizes and textures. Labia are the outer and inner lips of the vulva. The outer lips, or labia majora, are two fatty pads, usually covered with pubic hair. Between are the inner lips, or labia minora, two folds or flaps (like butterfly wings) of skin that join at the sensitive clitoral hood at the top, and thin out near the vaginal opening.

Women's labia are as unique as the individual woman — ranging in size, shape, color, and texture. Think of the labia as petals of a rare exotic flower. Some labia are short, thick, and lumpy or "ruffled." Others are long, thin, and smooth. Some labia are closed together. Others lie farther apart. So, if your labia have always looked this way, then this is "normal" for you.

Some women have explored their vulva but, as you do, wonder if they are "normal." Others have not yet looked at their own genitals. Looking at your vulva in a mirror allows you to become more familiar with your one-of-a-kind flower. Knowing what your vulva usually looks like and regularly performing this basic self-exam will help you detect any changes that may cause concern.

Sex educator Betty Dodson's video Viva La Vulva! Women's Sex Organs Revealed has helped many women feel at ease with their "down under," and prove that every woman's labia are unique.

Alice

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