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Kissing
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French kissing
[Reader Responses]
Originally Published: March 24, 2000
~ Last Updated / Reviewed on: October 06, 2006
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(1) hey alice,
I'm french and I'm wondering why there is such a big deal about french kisses. I mean, I've been doing that for years and the first time I frenched a girl, it just came naturally. To the poor american girls and boys, I'd say just let go, it will come by itself.
FrenchDude
[back to top] Now I totally agree with Alice! on the teeth clanking. Yep, it happens and even I do it sometimes! But me and my partner just laugh about it and go on. And for the nibbling on the tounge! It drives me nuts! I love that! But not if she bites. Why don't you try it sometime? I'm almost guaranteed that you'll love it! Good kissing!
[back to top] Alice, I agree with the French guy. I really wasn't expecting it when my girlfriend and I first kissed open-mouthed. She just went for it and I rolled with it. Don't stress, it will come naturally. It's not a big deal. If you feel a little uncomfortable (like I did) take the passive role. I let her take the lead with whatever she wanted to do. After you see what its all about, you can try something of your own. — Not French Dude
[back to top] Here's the deal in a nutshell. First off, you always start slow. Slowly kiss the lower or upper lip before moving in for the big kiss. Get to know the lips!! When you do open your mouth for the big "french kiss," slowly move your tongue around his/hers. Work together on this, but don't be sloppy! Also, make sure your hands are moving to keep the moment in check. Don't forget to touch the face and/or the back of the head. Just practice, and make sure it feels right... trust me... in 15 years, kissing will be the most important aspect of being with someone!
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