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Emergency contraception
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Emergency contraception?
Originally Published: December 06, 1996
~ Last Updated / Reviewed on: June 01, 2009
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Dear Alice,
My girlfriend and I had sex twice one night — the second time, we had to change condoms because she was dry and the lubricant had run out. Before I put the second condom on, she asked me to "put it in" without it on for a few seconds; which I did — not entirely all the way though. I instantly realized the mistake and withdrew. Naturally, as I expect, there is a small chance this could have gotten her pregnant. However, this was four days after her period ended, and the condoms we were using had nonoxynol-9 on the inside and outside. I had not ejaculated yet, as a matter of fact, I never did... and I had wiped the tip of my penis prior to doing this to avoid any pre-cum. My question is this: I'm hoping I'm right in assuming the chance of pregnancy is minimal — however, we are considering emergency contraception. What could you suggest? Thanks...!
Dear Reader, There's minimal chance of your girlfriend becoming pregnant from what seems like an understandable curiosity about what condom-less penetration feels like. From what you've written, it sounds like you were pretty careful. However, these "precautionary" measures don't guarantee 100 percent contraceptive effectiveness, as you later realized, even if you were inside her ever so briefly. If you and your girlfriend are concerned about the possibility of conception, then emergency contraception is an option. Emergency contraception needs to be taken within 120 hours of unprotected sex — the earlier you take it, the more effective it is. Plan B, the most common form of emergency contraception, is now available at many pharmacies without a prescription to people 17 and over. You can also call the Emergency Contraception Hotline at 1.888.NOT.2.LATE (1.888.668.2.5283) for more information and nearby referrals anywhere in the United States. If you're younger than 17 and at Columbia, you can call Primary Care Medical Services at x4-2284 or the clinician-on-call at x4-9797 for a prescription. If more than 120 hours have passed since unprotected sex, emergency contraception may no longer be an option. One option is to wait and see if your girlfriend misses her period. (Understandably, this can be nerve-wracking.) If she does, she can see a health care provider for pregnancy testing or use a home pregnancy test. You and your girlfriend may also consider talking with a provider if she, or you, wants to discuss pregnancy options or backup birth control for the future. Another thing to consider is that recent research shows the spermicide nonoxynol-9 (N-9) can make people more susceptible to sexually transmitted infections (STIs) like HIV. N-9 acts as a strong soap and can help form abrasions on vaginal or rectal tissue, making it easier for foreign intruders to penetrate. What's more, the World Health Organization says that condoms with N-9 are no more effective at preventing pregnancy than condoms alone. Using condoms with water- or silicone-based lube is a great way to make sex more pleasurable and prevent condoms from breaking. You can also buy extra lube in a bottle if what comes on the condom isn't enough to keep you two going. To prevent transmission of STIs, it's a good idea to both be tested for infections like chlamydia, gonorrhea, and HIV. Because STIs are often asymptomatic, it's smart to be tested every time you have a new sexual partner or at times like these, when you may have had an unexpected exposure. You can talk with a health care provider about which tests are most appropriate for you. One hundred percent safer sex can be hard to keep up, and it sounds like you're committed to being a responsible partner, which is admirable. Hopefully this little slip-up will work out okay.
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