Dear Alice,
I have a problem. I love it when my girlfriend performs oral sex
on me. However, she does not like doing it, and the few times that
she has, she complains about the taste of pre-ejaculatory fluid
being 'nasty'. How do I get her to like it?
Thanks,
Hung up on Heads
Dear Hung up on Heads,
One of the most frequent questions asked to sex therapists is,
"How can I get my partner to....." The first thing you need to do
is to provide specific solutions to the taste problem. Covering
your penis with a nonlubricated condom will eliminate the pre-cum
problem. If it still tastes nasty to her, how about covering your
genitals with something gooey and tasty, like chocolate syrup,
whipped cream, honey, etc. This should make the whole experience
fun rather than unpleasant.
If these physical changes don't work, then you and your girlfriend
need to do some soul searching. There may be a power play going on
here, or some other aspect of your relationship that is unspoken
and plays itself out in bed. In this case, you will both have to
do a little more work figuring out the cause of the problem and
working together to resolve it within the context of your total
relationship.
- Alice
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