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Weight gain and loss
Trying to diet
Originally Published: December 16, 1994 ~ Last Updated / Reviewed on: November 15, 2002
 

Dear Alice,

I've been trying to diet for over two years. My goal is to lose about 25 pounds, but the most I've been able to get is 15, and I can hardly keep it off. I concentrate on eating very little and since exercise is so hard to keep up, I pretty much starve myself to death. I manage to maintain the weight for a month, and then I lose control again. I've been thinking about the various diet products in the market, such as diet teas, herbs, meal- substitution shakes, and other medical products. I'd like to know what kind of side-effects they have, and how effective they are. (Some boast a seven-day plan, but that seems hardly believable.) Also, I'd like to know how well-researched the information is on these products, i.e., are they long-term enough to cover all the side-effects? As for aspartame, is it really harmless, or is it just not researched yet?

--Trying to Diet

 

Dear Trying to Diet,

Let's start with aspartame. Although the short-term research (sponsored mostly by the manufacturer of the product) has indicated aspartame is not harmful, there is no way to really know if it is harmless over a long term of usage, as it has not been on the market for that long. Adequate long-term research to get a definitive answer does not, and, probably, will never exist. (Unless, of course, like saccharin, it is found to be a carcinogen...)

When it comes to diet products, anything that seems too good to believe, is! There are no miracles or secrets to thinness out there. If one of these diet products truly worked, it would not stay a secret for very long (and there would be no need for all the others, would there?). Alice once heard a quote that a capitalistic society, such as the U.S., is the perfect place for the diet industry, because it relies on advertising, not effectiveness. In other words, the diet industry makes money by marketing products that are ineffective, so people will keep coming back for more.

There are, however, many tips that Alice can give you about good eating and nutritional habits to improve your health. It is possible that you are at a good weight for your body, and should not be trying to lose weight at all, but simply trying to change your habits to more well-rounded, healthful ones. Developing consistent, healthy eating habits that you will be able to maintain for the rest of your life will also help you get to, and keep, an adequate weight for the long run. Although not as glamorous as the diet industry's promises, changing your eating behaviors actually works.

Healthy eating includes listening to your body's internal signals (i.e., eating when you are hungry), but also knowing that it is okay to sometimes eat for other reasons (i.e., the fresh cookies taste so good, or just because it will get you through the next exam). Try to stay away from extremes (starving and out-of-control bingeing), and move towards the middle of the continuum. You might want to try a group next semester to help you with your eating behaviors, and improve your self-esteem and body image, called Food and Fitness for Thought. You can call x4-5453 to get more information and register (every semester). If you would like to speak with a nutritionist privately about your food and exercise questions, you can make an appointment by calling Health Services at x4-2284. All services are free and confidential.

Alice

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