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Decrease penis size?
Originally Published: May 06, 1994
 
Dear Alice,

This is sort of embarrassing, and you touched on it in a previous message, but... how do you decrease penis size? I'm serious. Is there some sort of surgery? I ask because my girlfriend says mine is too large, and it sometimes hurts her. Please answer.

Signed, Too big

 

Dear Too big,

Alice has answered this question any number of times already, in a variety of ways. Please see the answers to "First sex for two virgins?" and "Painful intercourse" in Alice's Sexuality archives. The basic gist is that it is incredibly rare for a man's penis to be too big for a woman. It is more likely that you are trying to have intercourse before your girlfriend is properly lubricated and ready. Go heavy on the foreplay, add some extra lubrication (like Aqua lube), and enjoy! If intercourse is still painful, your girlfriend should make an appointment with Primary Care Medical Services to make sure that she does not have an infection or another physical problem (x4-2284).

Alice

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