Dear Alice,
I love to have phone sex, but I always feel guilty after the
conversation. Am I some sort of a deviant because I like listening to
women playing with themselves? Also, do you know of any group of Columbia
women who are into not-for-profit phone sex? Is there any such exchange
available?
--Looking for phone sex!
Dear Looking for phone sex!,
Phone sex is a form of sexual fantasy. There is nothing wrong with
fantasy; in fact, in many forms, it is quite normal. Feeling guilty about
your phone sex experiences is also normal, but worry not! There is a big
difference between imagining doing something and actually carrying it
out. It is safe and fun to fantasize about protection-free, worry-free sex
with strangers, and to talk with them while imagining. In the real world,
where sexually transmitted infections (STIs) are commonplace, and where
conception and bad feelings occur far more often than anyone would like to
believe, you would need to take real life precautions. So, phone sex is
one practice of safer sex, and greatly reduces (if not nullifies) risk of
HIV transmission.
As far as a phone sex line on-campus is concerned, none are known of
at Columbia. However, various chat rooms are available online that may
meet your interests.
- Alice
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